![]() ![]() Your brother-in-law told you exactly what he would do, and then he followed through. It’s as if the disease has to find a way to win, and so alcoholics will quite naturally reject confrontations, course corrections, or even expressions of concern.Īnd – to be clear – some people are just wired this way, even without addiction’s pull. ![]() My husband died feeling very betrayed, and I can’t shake my resentment.ĭear Bitter: I think you have a few things to feel bitter about – your husband’s decline and death from an absolutely punishing and heartbreaking disease, being one.Īnd yes, it is obvious how disappointing your brother-in-law’s behavior has been, but addiction has a way of blunting a person’s humane responses. When this uncle speaks to his sister, he seems to play the victim – as if we had kept him away from his brother. ![]()
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